Health & Talk
__________________________________ Words by Dr. Feel Good

How To Get Engaged

Here’s a little advice for the fella’s – with June behind us and December looming, many young women turn their minds to – marriage! So how you pick out the right ring?

Your friends will ask, “Are you sure she’s the one?” “Are you ready to give up life on your own terms?” When, without hesitation, you answer, “Yes,” then a new life begins. Marriage.

Raising the Bar

After a romantic dinner, TJ gives RaShonda a book he has made, entitled “The Story of RaShonda and TJ.” The book is comprised of pictures - provided by her mother - of RaShonda throughout her life. (You score points with the mother of the bride if she knows about the proposal in advance.) Under each picture, TH has written about special moments in RaShonda’s life. When she turns to the back of the book, she finds that the last section of the book isn’t pictures at all. Instead, TJ has cut a hole to hold a ring box. She opens it, puts it on, says yes, and the next chapter of their lives begins.

Guys like TJ make proposals difficult for other guys, and chances are, you may not be able to think of something as romantic and clever as TJ did. So here’s some valuable advice. Choose the classic approach that time has shown again and again to be equally effective. Surprise her with the brilliance of a high-quality diamond to ensure an affirmative answer.

Know Your Diamonds

Set a budget - Determine how much you can spend before you start your search. This will narrow down your choices and make shopping easier. (We know how much you like to shop). Only consider certified diamonds - Make sure the diamonds you look at come with a diamond grading report or certificate from an independent laboratory, which authenticates the diamond’s quality. Learn the four “C”s of diamonds - Take some time to learn about diamonds. This will ensure you buy a diamond with the exact specifications you want - and it will also help you make budget tradeoffs.

Save a bundle - Some of the best deals on excellent quality diamonds can be found online. You’ll have a greater selection of diamonds to choose from and you’ll avoid sales tax in most states if you buy online. Check the return policy - Make sure the jeweler has a 30-day money-back guarantee so that you have ample time to have your diamond reviewed by an unbiased third-party.